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01 September 2013

Martin Luther King: Sex Obsessed Ladies’ Man

Martin Luther King, Jr., hero of the civil rights movement, was undoubtedly a great man. He was also a ladies’ man who routinely stepped out on his wife, Coretta, sometimes with members of his own congregation. It’s doubtful whether in today’s world, where privacy is almost a forgotten concept, King could still have become famous without being destroyed by sexual scandals.

We know about King’s reputation for two reasons. First, because the FBI’s J. Edgar Hoover’s was deeply suspicious about him, believing him to be a communist (although King was, in fact, a registered Republican) and ordered his agents to spy upon King constantly. What they found wasn’t evidence of communist, but was, instead, evidence of almost compulsive womanizing. Second, his own inner circle eventually had to admit that King just couldn’t keep his pants on.

Ironically enough, the priapic Kennedy brothers, Robert and John, the same men who were revealed to have been involved in sexual scandals that included mafia molls, movie stars, virgins, and orgies, were impressed when Hoover told them about the scope of King’s activities. In later recordings, Jackie Kennedy Onassis said, without a hint of irony, that “I can’t see a picture of Martin Luther King without thinking, you know, that man’s terrible.” According to Jackie, Bobby Kennedy to that King “was calling up all these girls and arranging for a party of men and women, I mean, sort of an orgy.”

Even King’s friends had to concede that King had a hard time keeping his pants on. Rev. Ralph Abernathy, one of King’s fellow civil rights campaigners and the man who was at King’s side when he died, admitted in 1989 that King did indeed have a “weakness for women.” Although King, an ordained minister, fully understood the Bible’s prohibition on adultery, Abernathy wrote that “It was just that he had a particularly difficult time with that temptation.”

Even on the last night of his life (not that King knew he would be killed the following day, of course), Abernathy describes how King had sex with two women simultaneously and then, later, had sex with yet a third woman. Indeed, that evening, which followed King’s “I’ve been to the mountaintop” speech saw King entertaining a revolving door of women.

In the years since Abernathy told his story, others who claim to have been there at the time dispute his narrative of events. One of the women Abernathy hinted slept with King, Georgia Davis Powers, says that, while she was in King’s hotel room, all that they did was talk. Abernathy, however, stuck to his version until the day he died.

The fact was that, as King told a friend, sex was the only thing that relaxed him. “I’m away from home 25 to 27 days a month. F*****g’s a form of anxiety reduction.” He developed long-term relationships with three women, but was perfectly content to take whatever came along when he was on the road. Invariably, though, because of his fame, King could have his pick of women. He liked light-skinned black woman, with model-like looks.

King’s behavior wasn’t unusual for the circles in which he traveled. All of the early civil rights preachers apparently had sex on their minds. Many who observed them said that sexual charisma was part of their appeal. For these pastors, sex with female congregants was the norm, not the exception. Michael Harrington, one of the activists involved in the civil rights movement at the time, explained that the movement was “not at all a sour-faced, pietistic” effort. Instead, “Everybody was out getting laid.’ Or trying to.”

King’s circles apparently had sex wherever and whenever they wanted. When King traveled to Norway in 1964 to collect the Nobel Peace Prize, hotel security was appalled to discover that the men who traveled with him were chasing naked, or near-naked, prostitutes down the hotel halls. Hotel management, however, was convinced to keep quiet about the matter.

Meanwhile, King insisted that his wife, Coretta Scott King, stay home raising their four daughters. Indeed, he had very little interaction with her or with her child-rearing decisions. Even cloistered in her home, Coretta was no fool. She knew that King was carousing but, as she once admitted, “I just wouldn’t have burdened him with anything so trivial . . . all that other business just didn’t have a place in the very high-level relationship we enjoyed.”

Sometimes it’s useful to remember that, at least with men, the same energy and courage that leads some of them to true greatness, is coupled with an overwhelming sex drive – and a sense of entitlement that both powers their public endeavors and, they believe, their private ones.

25 February 2012

The Consequences of Fatherlessness

Some fathering advocates would say that almost every social ill faced by America's children is related to fatherlessness.

Six are noted here. As supported by the data below, children from fatherless homes are more likely to be poor, become involved in drug and alcohol abuse, drop out of school, and suffer from health and emotional problems.

Boys are more likely to become involved in crime, and girls are more likely to become pregnant as teens.

1. Poverty

- Children in father-absent homes are five times more likely to be poor. In
2002, 7.8% of children in married-couple families were living in poverty,
compared to 38.4% of children in female-householder families.

Source: U.S. Census Bureau, Children's Living Arrangements and Characteristics: March
2002, P20-547, Table C8. Washington, D.C.: GPO 2003.

- In 1996, young children living with unmarried mothers were five times
as likely to be poor and ten times as likely to be extremely poor.

Source: "One in Four: America's Youngest Poor." National Center for children in Poverty. 1996.

- Almost 75% of American children living in single-parent families will
experience poverty before they turn 11 years old. Only 20 percent of
children in two-parent families will do the same.

Source: National Commission on Children. Just the Facts: A Summary of Recent information
on America's Children and their Families
. Washington, DC, 1993.


Source: U.S. Bureau of the Census.Statistical Abstract of the United States 1994. Washington, DC: GPO 1994.

2. Drug and Alcohol Abuse

- The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services states, "Fatherless children are at a dramatically greater risk of drug and alcohol abuse."

Source: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. National Center for Health Statistics. Survey on Child Health. Washington, DC, 1993.

- Children growing up in single-parent households are at a significantly increased risk for drug abuse as teenagers.

Source: Denton, Rhonda E. and Charlene M. Kampfe. "The relationship Between Family Variables and Adolescent Substance Abuse: A literature Review." Adolescence 114 (1994): 475-495.

- Children who live apart from their fathers are 4.3 times more likely to smoke cigarettes as teenagers than children growing up with their fathers in the home.

Source: Stanton, Warren R., Tian P.S. Oci and Phil A. Silva. "Sociodemographic characteristics of Adolescent Smokers." The International Journal of the Addictions 7 (1994): 913-925.

3. Physical and Emotional Health

- Unmarried mothers are less likely to obtain prenatal care and more likely to have a low birthweight baby. Researchers find that these negative effects persist even when they take into account factors, such as parental education, that often distinguish single-parent from two-parent families.

Source: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. Public Health Service. Center for Disease Control and Prevention. National Center for Health Statistics. Report to Congress on Out-of-Wedlock Childbearing. Hyattsville, MD (Sept. 1995): 12.

- A study on nearly 6,000 children found that children from single parent homes had more physical and mental health problems than children who lived with two married parents. Additionally, boys in single parent homes were found to have more illnesses than girls in single parent homes.

Source: Hong, Gong-Soog and Shelly L. White-Means."Do Working Mothers Have Healthy Children?" Journal of Family and Economic Issues 14 (Summer 1993): 163-186.

- Children in single-parent families are two to three times as likely as children in two-parent families to have emotional and behavioral problems.

Source: Stanton, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. National Center for Health Statistics."National Health Interview Survey." Hyattsville, MD, 1988.


Source: Zill, Nicholas and Carol Schoenborn. Child Developmental, Learning and Emotional Problems: Health of Our Nation's Children. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. National Center for Health Statistics. Advance Data 1990. Washington, DC: GPO, 16 Nov. 1990.

- Three out of four teenage suicides occur in households where a parent has been absent.

Source: Elshtain, Jean Bethke."Family Matters: The Plight of America's Children." The Christian Century (July 1993): 14-21.

4. Educational Achievement

- In studies involving over 25,000 children using nationally representative data sets, children who lived with only one parent had lower grade point averages, lower college aspirations, poor attendance records, and higher drop out rates than students who lived with both parents.

Source: McLanahan, Sara and Gary Sandefur. Growing up with a Single Parent: What Hurts, What Helps. Cambridge: Harvard University Press, 1994.

- Fatherless children are twice as likely to drop out of school.

Source: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. National Center for Health Statistics. Survey on Child Health. Washington, DC; GPO, 1993.


Source: McLanahan, Sara and Gary Sandefur. Growing up with a Single Parent: What Hurts, What Helps. Cambridge: Harvard University Press, 1994.

- After taking into account race, socioeconomic status, sex, age, and ability, high school students from single-parent households were 1.7 times more likely to drop out than were their corresponding counterparts living with both biological parents.

Source: McNeal, Ralph B. Jr."Extracurricular Activities and High School Dropouts." Sociology of Education 68(1995): 62-81.

- School children from divorced families are absent more, and more anxious, hostile, and withdrawn, and are less popular with their peers than those from intact families.

Source: One-Parent Families and Their Children: The School's Most Significant Minority. The Consortium for the Study of School Needs of Children from One-Parent Families. National Association of elementary School Principals and the Institute for Development of Educational Activities, a division of the Charles f. Kettering Foundation. Arlington, VA 1980.

5. Crime

- Children in single parent families are more likely to be in trouble with the law than their peers who grow up with two parents.

Source: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. National Center for Health Statistics. National Health Interview Survey. Hyattsville, MD, 1988.

- In a study using a national probability sample of 1,636 young men and women, it was found that older boys and girls from female headed households are more likely to commit criminal acts than their peers who lived with two parents.

Source: Heimer, Karen. "Gender, Interaction, and Delinquency: Testing a Theory of Differential Social Control." Social Psychology Quarterly 59 (1996): 39-61.


Source: Ryan, Gail et al."Trendis in a National Sample of Sexually Abusive Youths." Journal of the American Academy of Child Adolescent Psychiatry 35 (January 1996): 17-25.

- A study in the state of Washington using statewide data found an increased likelihood that children born out-of-wedlock would become a juvenile offender. Compared to their peers born to married parents, children born out-of-wedlock were:

  • 1.7 times more likely to become an offender and 2.1 times more likely to become a chronic offender if male.
  • 1.8 times more likely to become an offender and 2.8 times more likely to become a chronic offender if female.
  • 10 times more likely to become a chronic juvenile offender if male and born to an unmarried teen mother.

Source: Conseur, Amy et al. "Maternal and Perinatal Risk Factors for Later Delinquency." Pediatrics 99 (1997): 785-790.

6. Sexual Activity and Teen Pregnancy

- Adolescent females between the ages of 15 and 19 years reared in homes without fathers are significantly more likely to engage in premarital sex than adolescent females reared in homes with both a mother and a father.

Source: Billy, John O. G., Karin L. Brewster and William R. Grady. "Contextual Effects on the Sexual Behavior of Adolescent Women." Journal of Marriage and Family 56 (1994): 381-404.

- A survey of 720 teenage girls found:

  • 97% of the girls said that having parents they could talk to could help reduce teen pregnancy.
  • 93% said having loving parents reduced the risk.
  • 76% said that their fathers were very or somewhat influential on their decision to have sex.

Source: Clements, Mark. Parade. February 2, 1997.

- Children in single parent families are more likely to get pregnant as teenagers than their peers who grow up with two parents.

Source: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. National Center for Health Statistics. National Health Interview Survey. Hyattsville, MD 1988.

- A white teenage girl from an advantaged background is five times more likely to become a teen mother if she grows up in a single-mother household than if she grows up in a household with both biological parents.

Source: Whitehead, Barbara Dafoe. "Facing the Challenges of Fragmented Families." The Philanthropy Roundtable 9.1 (1995): 21.

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